Different Strokes and an'all

TGIF yay, was really looking forward to a very interesting evening with a couple of friends tonight. The plan was to meet up for a couple of Sambuccas and get down to some arm wrestling would have been a good night too. As usual you plan things and the suddenly something cropped up most definitely ruins things guaranteed. Oh well wasn't meant to be, instead am gonna have a chilled out evening and look forward to the slow down zone.

OK so it's Friday and I usually have a girlie discussion through lunch with the ladies, today seems some people are on the horny tip and so we went down the route of talking relationships and shagging lol.

For those visiting today you may or perhaps not remember I wrote a blog some months ago....Sticks and Stones should break my bones yet whips and chains excite me......go figure that was a major brain drain lol (http://swankanddirect.blogspot.com/2011/09/sticks-and-stones-should-break-my-bones.html)

The post was basically exploring the misconceptions associated with kinky play roles and desires in relationships and how certain people view this act of domination as immoral depending on which side of the fence you sit on.

The key point was that some 'KINKS' might be my vice yet to others it may be a turn off. Oh well as it goes 'different strokes for different folks', I stand firmly by that.

So my KINK might not be your kink but thas's ok (MKNYKBTO). Now am sure everyone can relate to that blazing heat that is to KINK, but in some cases your 'KINK' can be someone else's 'Squick'.

Sometimes you need a little something different, that vavavoom be it in the bedroom, car or perhaps on the kitchen floor. It's all about location, location, location adventure awaits those who seek thrill and excitement. We all need a little extra ''je ne se qua'' I know I do. It's that dash of something which may be idiomatic in expression, however if you are with the right partner then your interaction and sexual fire should literally be orgasmic in nature.

Most couples use BDSM to predicate the outcome of enjoyment in their sexual activities. For those who are reading and shaking their heads don't knock it. The mundane of everyday life can be BORING and sometimes you gotta put a little fire under that rocket and cause some sparks.

It could be talking dirty to each other, a spank here and there which can be a turn on for some people, yet others would be grimacing at the thought. What about fantasy coupled with some body paint, the type you can both lick off each other, blind folds, hand cuffs even better throw an extra body into the mix and there you have an exquisite bag of sweets.

So one of your partners KINK's may be using an inanimate object to fulfill their sexual fantasy. Remember the golden rule is that MKNYKBTO, therefore if a KINK is legal and consensual why do we feel the need to pull out our Judegy Pants???. Or why do we feel too embarrassed to tell the truth? Why not be honest??

Case in point the man who ends up in ER with a bottle stuck up their rear end

Doctor says: So what happened?

Patient replies: I accidentally fell on top of this wine bottle

Doctor say: You must have aimed correctly because it's made a right arse out of you

So remember before you pull on your judegy pants remember MKNYKBTO and as long as it's legal then it's OK. So anyone got anything they wanna get of their chest????

(Finishing off this trilogy Squicks and Brain Bleach)